Are you a good communicator?
Are you a good listener? 
Are you sympathetic or empathic?
Do you have good boundaries?
Are you a giver or a taker?

When you acknowledge your faults and become accountable for your own actions, that's when you will begin to see a Change from within. Change doesn't happen overnight and it doesn't happen on its own. Change begins with you!

Love and Communication Are Vital Factors In Any Relationship,
But Without
Honesty Understanding Respect Trust,
The Only Thing You Will End Up With Is A Lot Of Hurt.

Never expect something from others, that you are not willing to give yourself.